How does one succeed in life?
10.06.2025 12:13

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
That's it for today.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do you regret being married to your current wife?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why was the rock band Kiss so successful?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What was the worst spanking you got growing up?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What do men like to be given for their birthday?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
The mystery rise of lung cancer in non-smokers - BBC
Making more friends is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Why is Canada letting too many Indians in Canada?
What I need from you?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Meta buys a nuclear power plant (more or less) - TechCrunch
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I want to have anal sex, but my wife refuses. What do I do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
iFixit Says Switch 2 Is Probably Still Drift Prone - WIRED
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Ask yourself:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Speech by Governor Kugler on the economic outlook and monetary policy - Federal Reserve Board (.gov)
Does not procrastinate.
Procrastinates a lot.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Vikings are worried about J.J. McCarthy (if you ignore everything they've said) - The Viking Age
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Can you share a story of someone who had a lucky experience while hitchhiking?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Do not set goals—set systems.